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It Never Happened – If you define ‘love’ as having a ‘great care and concern’ for someone, then I never fell out of love with Mike. Even today, years later, I still have a great care and concern for him and his happiness – even though I’ve remarried (so did he).

Three years into our relationship, he told me he was getting bored with our lifestyle – and especially with our sex life. We did do the same stuff most of the time. He wanted to experiment – I wasn’t very interested. He would bring home porn flicks – ‘How To’ books – magazines. Most times to me most of them looked like adults playing doctor like when we were kids.

Finally I told him if he was that interested in ‘different sex’ – to go find someone who was also interested. He did. He would come home at night limp like a wet noodle. That was fine with me. I was losing anything – he was gaining something that he enjoyed.

As far as I was concerned it could have gone on like that forever. But the new girlfriend said it couldn’t. She didn’t want him having sex with anyone else. So maybe six months later we filed for divorced. He got a place and had the woman move in with him. That lasted maybe another six or seven months an then that was over. I never asked what happened. We still talk once in a while – exchange emails.

Rosalinda